01Community Values and Purpose
Cumpli exists to help people build deeply compatible connections grounded in integrity, care, and explicit consent. These guidelines explain the standards every member is expected to follow to support a safer, respectful experience.
By using Cumpli, you agree to act in alignment with these guidelines, our Terms & Conditions, and our Privacy Policy.
02Active, Ongoing, and Informed Consent
Consent must be clear, specific, and freely given. Silence, pressure, or ambiguity are not consent.
- Ask before escalating sexual or intimate conversation
- Respect a no, a maybe, or a change of mind immediately
- Understand that consent can be withdrawn at any time
- Do not initiate sexual contact with someone who is asleep or too impaired to choose freely; advance discussion is not a present yes
- Never use guilt, repeated pressure, manipulation, or intoxication to override boundaries
03Honest Identity and Relationship Transparency
Trust requires honesty. You must represent yourself truthfully in your profile, messages, and interactions.
- When applying, submit a Primary head shot that clearly shows your face and a separate full-body shot, then affirm that every submitted photo was taken within the previous six months. Cumpli treats this as your statement and does not automatically verify those photo qualities.
- Be honest about relationship status, agreements, and intentions
- Do not impersonate another person or create deceptive accounts
- Do not hide partner-related context that materially affects consent
04Communication and Boundary Respect
Engage with others as autonomous adults with different needs and limits. If someone sets a boundary, that boundary is final unless they clearly revisit it.
- Use respectful language, even in disagreement
- Accept rejection without retaliation or repeated contact attempts
- Do not shame, mock, or pressure people for their boundaries
- Stop contact when asked
05Privacy, Confidentiality, and Anti-Outing
Privacy is foundational in our community. You may not expose another member's identity, profile details, relationship structure, or platform activity outside Cumpli without explicit written permission.
- No doxxing or identifying details shared outside the platform
- No screenshots, reposts, or redistribution of private messages or profile content
- No sharing information that could out someone in personal or professional settings
06Harassment, Hate, Coercion, and Abuse
Cumpli has zero tolerance for targeted harm. The following are prohibited and may result in immediate removal:
- Harassment, stalking, threats, intimidation, or extortion
- Hate speech or discrimination based on identity or protected characteristics
- Sexual coercion, boundary violations, or non-consensual conduct
- Glorification of abuse or violence toward others
07Content and Conduct Rules
Member content and conduct must remain lawful, consensual, and respectful.
- No illegal content or content depicting exploitation
- No non-consensual sexual content or threats of sexual violence
- No blackmail, revenge content, or coercive disclosure demands
- No malware links, phishing attempts, or fraudulent schemes
08Safety and Legality
Cumpli is for adults only. You must be at least 18 years old to use the platform. Any account involving minors or exploitative conduct will be removed and may be reported to relevant authorities.
- No content or conduct involving minors
- No trafficking, exploitation, or illegal sexual activity
- No encouragement of imminent harm or credible threats of violence
09Spam, Solicitation, and Commercial Misuse
Cumpli is a matchmaking community, not a lead-generation or advertising channel. The following are prohibited without explicit written permission from Cumpli:
- Mass unsolicited messages or repetitive copy-and-paste outreach
- Commercial promotions, recruitment funnels, or external paywalls
- Requests for money, financial credentials, or payment fraud attempts
10Reporting, Response Times, and Evidence Handling
If you experience or witness a violation, report it as soon as possible. Include the member's name or Report Pseudonym, a description of what happened, relevant dates, and any evidence you already have. Do not create or redistribute intimate content to make a report.
We review reports based on severity and urgency. We aim to acknowledge reports within 72 hours and prioritize immediate safety risks first.
Please report issues to [email protected].
11Enforcement Model
Cumpli uses a tiered enforcement model for most violations, while reserving immediate account removal for severe misconduct.
Tiered Actions
- Educational warning and policy notice
- Account access restrictions or temporary suspension
- Permanent account removal for repeated or serious misconduct
Immediate Removal Categories
- Outing, doxxing, or credible threats
- Sexual coercion, violence, or exploitative behavior
- Any involvement of minors or related exploitation content
- Severe harassment or hate-based abuse
12Appeals and Contact
If your account is restricted or removed, you may appeal by submitting a written request with relevant context within 14 days of the enforcement action.
Safety and Reporting: [email protected]
Legal and Appeals: [email protected]
